TimeTree

TimeTree is the shared calendar when the lists can live in another app.
Who it’s for
Both of you will open a calendar that is not work.
Who should skip
Skip it if the grocery list has to live in the same app.


Price
Free with ads. Premium is US$4.49 a month or $44.99 a year, first month free, per account.
Works on Apple and Android.
Last checked
Setup on both phones
- Create one calendar.
- Invite the other parent.
- Check the Premium price on each phone before you pay.
What to put in it
- The week both of you need: pickups, practices, and appointments.
- A color per person, and the filter that hides everyone else’s day when you only need yours.
- A comment on the event when the time changes, instead of a side text.
The downside
It is only the calendar, and Premium is per account.